I don`t know couples which do not have problems with sex after several years of life together. But I know some couples which have successfully solved these problems.
How they succeeded in it? You can love one person during the whole life, but even the breathtaking sex is bored. Why it happens? Nobody is guilty. You do everything for your partner to make him/her happy, and he does the same for you, but you got too accustomed to each other. It happens. And if to be more precisely it can not happen in a different way.
Sexologists affirm that after several years of together life a lot of married couples stop making sex. How to return the novelty of sensations? How to make your partner to show impassioned interest again, and not just respect and sincere sympathy? In this situation, banal advices from magazines do not work.
So, what can we do? I decided to call my friend, the mother of three children and ask her directly about this. I was surprised. The matter is that she and her husband have sex every day. It wasn`t always like this, only in last ten years. I asked her to tell me everything! I have learned the following from her story:
1. Stake on sensitivity. First of all you should like yourself. Just believe that body oil is not a nonsense which you can manage without, it really make your skin softer. That pheromones which are sold in sex shops are not placebo, it really influence sexuality.
2. Use vaginal beads for intimate muscles training. There is nothing ridiculous. Anonymous Internet polls showed that women use these sex toys very often. They say that it is unforgettable pleasure during trainings and inexpressible sensations during sex.
3. Buy sex toys and use them together with your partner. Ten years ago my friend, being depressed after a birth of the second child just said to her partner that she wanted something new in sex. As it turned out he wanted the same! They will never forget that night! That night became a new page in their relationships. I think this is because sex is really inexhaustible, and love is eternal.
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